A new phase..Future uncertain-imagine that!

[Vdad]

Mel,

Thanks for checking in.

I guess the best description of where I'm at is adjusting to being a single dad of four kids.

To get used to being Divorced. It still seems strange to consider myself that. But she blew through every boundary I have. All that seems to be left is to focus on co-parenting with her to ground the kids as much as possible.

The filing will happen next week and 90 days later here it's done. We are doing it without attorneys. She wants this so bad I have leverage that will make it easier on me in the long run.

Best example of what the sitch is: I spend time here trying to figure all of this out and she googles every night club in the local area. She has picked up quickly with a few different guys via e-mail and looking for more. Pretty sure she will progress quickly in that area. All I can do is drop the rope and focus on me and hey, if I happen to meet someone special, eventually I will be ready for it.

V