It sounds like H is doing a little backpaddling with all the niceties.
Do you think he is already sorry and feeling regret?
Does he know there is something happening between you and M3?
This is exactly the same sort of stuff H does with me and he also filed for a D in Oct 08.
I have not and will not help him fill out his papers though. I won't make it easy for him to D me. If he wants to eventually go through with it, it's going to be half his burden. I will take care of my own and that's all.
I would maintain, maintain, maintain if I were you. You just never know where these things will end up.
Have a great week, you are doin' marvelous!!!!!!!!
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11