(sighs and hugs...only ONE sigh, okay?) You do own the stupid part of this and you know it so why hammer you? I mean, I think I'd have cracked long ago so if this is the worst of your "petty fighting" back at her, you win in my eyes.
So, but for the texting...there is nothing else different in her but you somehow feel that there is OM#4?
As much as that might still hurt, and I think it does, whether you want it to or not, it actually does have a positive side...YEP, here it comes.1) CLARITY, no more second thoughts...self doubts...etc. SHE is wacky, and you are not. ALSO,
#2) if this guy exists, AND IS wealthy, so much the better for you. Consider it a bonus or a raise. She'll be in more of a hurry to end this purgatorial existence AND probably be less greedy or at least not as terrified of running out of money.
3) IF he exists AND IF he is rich, Your kids won't starve while they're with them. You won't have to drive over with milk money for the next day in the middle of the night ((comment based on a true story of a friend & her stbxh))
See how wonderful it all is now??? Okay not that wonderful. But I think the clarity is a good thing. PLEASE FRANK tell me how much longer this is going on? I thought your L said the end of April, correct? Is the forensic part over? To your w, I will say something only another woman would say OR understand...
#$%(*&^%<&*%)%#@$$$$$$$$$$$$????????!!!! There, I had to get that off my chest.
((( j )))
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