I am not one to stick a feather up my ... but I do feel that H is missing out on the REAL thing, on the BETTER woman, and a GREAT mom and wife. I'm glad I've realised that ! And funnily enough, it no longer matters that much when and if he will ever notice or realise this.
I feel bad for the kids, because their world fell apart without anyone ever asking THEM ...but I am happy that I am trying my best to have a good relationship with their dad, so that they have as little possible stress.
Amazingly accurate, my friend! I, too, in these painful years, have gone from "I should have been better..." to "He will never do better". Sounds arrogant, but I don't mean it that way!
And yes, the kids. That part still makes me upset. But I am glad you have gotten past OW issues too. I have gotten over OW (they aren't together as a couple anymore, but who knows, they probably still see each other for meaningful sex). Heck, I even let her go in front of me in the carpool lane the other day. lol
