...as you seem to be looking for something that you may not find...I often think that too...even about H...
I did not quite get this - please explain.
I had quite a nice week-end. I went to the jazz concert with my GF since "my sailor" did not contact me anymore. It was not really jazz but Cuban music with supposedly jazz influence. Unfortunately, the Cuban music on Monday was so much better that I did not enjoy this concert as much as if I had heard it before the other one.
Yesterday I did meet with the other sailor who is quite a bit older. He is quite nice looking and was well dressed. Initially he said that he would like to get to know me on a friendship basis, but when we actually met he said after about 15 minutes that he also wants to get close to a woman and not just go for afternoon teas!!! He even suggested that next time we meet at MY place!!! I told him straight away NO. We parted saying that we would stay in e-mail contact. Although he said he likes to go to comedy shows I did not find him a funny guy. - Oh well, I just cannot imagine getting close to some strange guy so quickly.
Afterwards I met my GF and we went for a coffee in the sun (behind glass since it is cold again). As it was late in the afternoon we chatted for a while and decided to have dinner together. After finding only full restaurants we finally got to a small Italian restaurant where we were given a table for a limited time and had a super pizza.
Today I thought I would meet yet another guy but the weather got bad again and he mailed me that he got the flu. A FF phoned me and I met her and my GF to go for a walk. Afterwards we went for a coffee and chatted for ages. We all enjoyed it.
H wrote again saying that I am so unfair to want the money from the proceeds of the property. That he has to live somewhere as well and he would be grateful if I reconsidered! He is still trying to manipulate me and make me feel bad about it. - I did not answer.
I would have liked to tell him that he is to blame himself and that he should not have thrown out the money, but I told him often enough that I will not finance him and his OW.
