Ex not that interested in returning kids calls to him.
This is also so unlike him.
Things are changing.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting it does sound like depression. That exactly sounds like my h, sleeping all the time. Seems distant and aloof when he is deep in depression. Even though my h is on AD's, he is still not his old self.
The AD's help, but a consistent schedule, exercise and diet would help my h too.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Trusting - the rollercoaster isn't it. Really look at it.. He can't use money right now to bounce back up....depression is real. TRUST me on this one. But as you know, we can't rescue. Even if we were married to them..... this has to be done alone (and through that is where they find God and healing.)
I am so good with giving instruction. so much easier then doing it yourself.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
So far have received no information regarding ex taking me back to court.
I hope it stays that way.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
ok ok i know its a sign of depression but i would like to sleep for awhile..... this single mom (every other weekend dad) stuff is hard. (And those of you who have more than 1 and do this I applaud you!!)
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
I do believe I am not as depressed as say last year.
It is very ironic how when they seem happy, we are depressed.
When they are depressed, we are happy/growing.
Ex said to the kids that he cannot come by the house anymore, it makes him sick to his stomach at what he has lost.
Other than that, everything quiet.
No court papers, thank God.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
