Cinders, I'm very happy for you....yes, you are a very special person. In fact, we all are!
As for the op (om/ow), they are nothing special at all. They are a reflection of how our spouses and former spouses feel about themselves now. Your h will discover that in years to come. You, on the other hand, learned a long time ago.
Cinders....you are the prize! Enjoy your new found freedom and live your life to the fullest. You have so much to offer the world!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
