You guys are. I always try to be honest here. Here is one that I blame myself for:

I took the kids to the Empire State Building yesterday with my buddy 'Anthony' and his wife/kids. Coming home, my wife called but I was tired and just got off the train. Took the kids to Anthony's house and she texted me that she wanted to speak with them(as she usually does on MY day with them). The kids fell asleep and I didn't get back to her texts. I fell into a conversation with 'Anthony' and his wife and around 1130'ish my W called and demanded to know where I was and where were the kids. Calmly and softly, I told her it was none of her business where I was..that the kids were on the way home with me and they were safe.

To make a long story short, she taped me when I got home saying the same thing. She ranted about being their mother and needing to know where they were. I replied it was my day with them...I was their father....they were safe with me...that it was late and she should go to bed. So...she taped me saying that 'it was none of her business'. No screaming, cursing, yelling...calm.

My buddies say it means nothing. I hate that she tries to control me. But on the other hand, I regret not simply sending a one line text saying that they were asleep and with me. Hatred, but, I guess I fueled that one. My buddy is happy that I stood my ground. He is the tough one. However, if I had sent a simple text, this would have been avoided.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure that OM4 is here, but, this is over so....it's not really an OM. My cell phone bill is high and she is texting one number...day and night (hi Frank_d...sound familiar). I believe he is married (perhaps getting a D)....owns a financial company...and lives in the wealthiest area of a local town.

Maybe it WAS all about money.

FIB



Staying under the same roof is obviously killing me.

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;