Thinker, you make good points, but I tend to think of myself as doing what you're doing -- upbeat, talkative, focusing on myself.
I'm not status-checking to see if the DB is working -- but when there's been icy separation and then obviously less icy body language (no commentary, no googo-eyes) -- it's hard not to take notice. AT BEST it COULD be a signal that I've stopped pushing/pursuing. If so, so be it. If her body was just collapsing and that's the way it happened to fall, so be it as well.
Definitely taking it all with salt, especially because she caught me off-guard this a.m. (serving the kids some bkfst) and sprang an "idea" about the finances on me.
Researching -- as much as I can -- the state laws on spousal support and commingling of funds right now.
