Invitations turned down -- breakfast, phone conversation, want me to bring u back home when u drop yr car off for service? No thanks.

"Obsessing" -- hard to gauge obsession from 600 character bb posts, methinks.

"overly enthusiastic" -- eyes of the beholder? If you were (as I was) overly unenthusiastic for years, what constitutes the 180?

GAL/Separate things -- started tennis lessons, started volunteering, 4 x lunches w/ friends (formerly 0x), took on a speaking engagement

Here is my signature stuff.