Hey Cat! I call him Spongebob because he has a square body and stick legs....never thought of the spineless part but it is true as well!

Well, the man I met....well, we've cooled it...no dating or anything. SO I guess I am free to date whomever I want at this point. Bummer. I really dug him.

anyhow...I wish you luck in dating...geez, I wish ME luck in dating!

Just take it slow...and go at your own pace. I did date a bit before I met Spongebob and have dated a few men since September...and that has been an eye opening experience. Just enjoy and remember you don't have to MARRY anyone...just dating they guy...

Once the D is final you will be free from so many things...just keep that in mind...

Hugs,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller