Ha - No prob on the sex drive if that happens, nothing happening on that front since 11/22 and I doubt anything could interfere with my sex drive anyway
I appreciate the advice on the tattling also. I will have a talk with her about this sometime. Probably not today after what happened last night.
We had a decent day, no fighting, no R talk. Cordial and nice to each other, nothing overly special. Plans were to watch the kids while she went out with neighbor. I took the kids to benihana's and we had a blast! She left at 7:00 and before we left I told her to be careful but have fun and she said that she would text me from time to time and I told her not to worry about it.
Anyway, she texted me at 8:00 saying F wasn't there yet (30 min late and always late person) then texted me at 10:00 saying they were still eating (which is understandable since it was a fancy restaurant and can take a while to eat there). She then texted me at 11:57 saying they were still there in the bar talking. Still no big deal. I wait up catching up on all of my dvr shows for the week and watch pursuit of happiness (good movie). By 3:40 (really 2:40), I am pissed so I send her text saying are you coming home? She immediately replies yes on my way. At 4:30 I ask R U OK? She then replies that she is sorry and on her way. She has been over at different friends house and that her H just left her. This is the F that I don't approve of and has already been D once and I think is a bad influence. She finally gets home at about 4:45 and as the garage opens, I walked past her car and out. She opens window and says is sorry and I can call F to see if she is telling the truth. I told her I didn't care as long as she is safe and I left.
On way to my place, she texted me that she understands why I am mad and knew I would be but didn't know what to do. Said she hadn't been drinking except during dinner and not much then and also wasn't doing anything else bad. Just being there for her friend. I texted neighbors H and asked him what time she got home and he said 4:00 and she is actually the good influence on my W I think. So I think she is telling the truth, but I still don't think it is right for my W to be out at those hours of the night. Especially from a worry perspective.
She texted me again just a minute ago asking if I was still mad? I never responded last night or yet this morning. I guess I am mad that she never said "Hey, F is really down, H left her and all of us are talking this out and comforting her and I am at her house, safe and will be home real late" Am I wrong about this? I am not going to get into it with her and will just let it go. Not going to call her at all today.
This whole dang thing just plain sucks! I wish all of our WAS's would just wake the hell up!
