I'd like to take this opportunity to add my wee bit to the discussion. Yet another LBS. I posted on your thread in the WAS section UC. It is a bit uncanny how many of our sitches seem so similar.
I've just been to my W's new house for the first time today and it's upset me quite a lot. She just seemed so settled that my whole DBing journey suddenly seemed completely futile. I know that the support we all get on here lifts our spirits though so I'm so glad I found it. I've also got my first session with a DB coach tomorrow evening so I'm hoping that helps a bit. I just can't think of anything she can possibly tell me which will help though. I'm no expert so I hope that I'm wrong.
Stick with it UC and keep on posting. We'll all help each other get through this as best as we can. I'm sure we'll all agree that our W's are crazy. One day they might all snap out of it. We can but hope.
Keep smiling.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.