He said I don't want to use you? That doesn't sound good to me. I would pull way back if I were you. I think he's pretty much telling you that his feelings for you are not there. My h pretty much told me that yesterday too. So sorry. You and I deserve better treatment than we've been getting. Pull back and protect yourself. God forbid if you were to get pregnant while things are like this. That would be disaster.
I ML with my h several times after we separated too, and it stopped when he stopped trying and saying I love you. I already have two kids, and I don't need to get pg with a 3rd with this man. If you read my thread "devestated" it is going down hill as well. We can't make men care that appearantly have decided that they don't. We deserve better. Best wishes. Feel free to post to me.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
