OK, went to the divorce mediator the other day. She explained the process to us. Asked us if there were any questions. I asked, "what if someone changes their mind"? My W later told me she didn't appreciate my asking because as far as she's concerned there is no chance of reconciling. She said I'm clueless, I don't get it, can't accept reality. She has been in psychotherapy for 5 months and she says I can't catch up to her emotionally and she can't wait even if I could. She wants to move on and that's it. She said I should have asked her what was bothering her years ago. Whenever I did, she said nothing was wrong. She can't accept that our Ds want her out of the house. I told her the reason is looking at her in the mirror. She has everything figured out and I am clueless.
