she has told me that her h is not unhappy. She says she is dissatified with the Marriage. Ok, so who isn't one time or another. Again she's giving up to easily and way to happy about the whole thing.
I may suggest to her H the dr book. I know him well enough that he would welcome any suggestions. As far as retrouvaille sara, I would love it if they went, but she is no where near that place right now.
It kills me to see her doing this. She is my very best friend, but I cannot condone or be passive about what she is doing. I just don't understand how she can be so supportive of me and what I went through, and then just give up on her own marriage that was really essentially better than my own.
But I have to say that, this makes me look at my own marriage closer and thank god that Im not in such a bad place anymore. As much as My H and I have fought etc. We still talk everyday on the phone and most times voice our opinions to each other be it bad or good. I don't think my friend and her H do that, she has said they don't communicate well.
But they do go out frequently alone, so this just baffles me.
Theres not many people in this world who can say they have a best friend. It takes years I think to establish that. and then when something like this it challenges your friendship. I don't believe in giving up, I don't believe in affairs and I believe in working through the bad times. It dissapoints me.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
