Your title caught my attention...are you Dutch ? Afgewerkt....
Anyway, I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce, it's something I don't look forward to, and having to divide our kids seems horrible too....even though I let H have them as often as possible, and we stick to our 'agreement'.
Well, I live in Belgium but am Dutch...
Take care x
Love Cinders xxx
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