Never say Never; it's worth the fight!

[Treese]

Hey Di.....I'm sorry you've lost your dad...I can't imagine...my dad is my hero....I love him so much....my H too started his affair with current OW a few months after my Hysterectomy...I'm laid up and he's out getting laid...now that's low....

Last August was the first Birthday in 30 years I didn't spend with my H either...it was tough but I made it through...so many firsts since...and knowing that he is spending them with OW was difficult at first but its so much easier now...if that is what he wants instead of his family....let him twirl around in the wind..it's not reality...

I don't talk to my H much at all anymore...he will only text if it has to do with s11...sometimes I answer, sometimes I don't..he hasn't taken my son the past 2 weekends...had him only 2 overnights in February....but it's his loss....someday he'll step back and wonder what happened to those years with his son...then again, maybe not...I'm not dwelling anymore...it takes up too much space in my head...I'm moving forward...
dropping that rope....

Hang in there....I am.....Treese