I actually have been trying to use a girlfriend voice, and my 2 girls picked up on it LOL... The 8 yr old said Mommy, why do you have a different sweet voice when you talk to Daddy on the phone, then your regular voice is back when you hang up. LOL
Lately when we are together I think to myself, if he was a guy I just met, how would I act? How would I treat him, how DID I treat him 12 yrs ago. I think I got to comfortable and began taking him and our marriage for granted in a way. I'm trying to touch him in new ways, Last nite I initiated ML, and he went with it, didn't reject me, which he never has, but I get embarrassed.
This is an example of what I'm talk about when I tell people to stop "acting" like they are married!
Sandi2
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
