Very interesting reading. BND I would love to read your story but I cant find it. I am just almost 6 months into this and my xh wants NO contact with me. At first he did a little, but now its getting worse. The more I stay away from him the worse he gets when we speak. Has anyone experienced this. My xh has to be one of the meanest MLC'ers their is. He could care less about anybody but hisself. He has been thru 3 women and already lost of 3 of them. It's his way or the highway. Sadly he has been this way all his life....just NOT THIS BAD! I am so scared that I am driving him further away with no contact, because he seems to HATE me more when we speak. He said in court the other day he wanted to speak every now and then to keep contact. But since breakup with ow, he never wants to speak again. WHAT???? BND knows this, I havent been very good in the past six months about leaving him alone, until the last month or so and I went 8 days with no contact. I get to thinking....well 8 days, hes probably gonna be reasonable to me now. I dont even try or want to talk about realationship. I just want to talk about anything, weather....trucks....fishing, whatever. Heck just say how are you doing. BUT nope, he says I am his past and go away and never call or speak to him again. Has any of you experienced this bad of an experience. I admit, I messed up, but I know I didnt cause this man this much discontent. I am just trying to find a thread where my sitch might be the same.
