I don't know what to say. For most of you this is the first time you are going through this experience. I was the same the first time and then things got worse. So, the second time around it is not so exciting. It's depressing.
I have been through this twice too. It is depressing, but you will make it. We all need to keep telling ourselves that. This is even harder with an A. All I know is I look back on what I lived with and made my kids live with and I am so sick by it.
You have done well with your decisions thus far. Just keep it up. Nothing has to be done tonight or even this week/month.
(((Kass))))
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
