Touching is alot. I know. I don't get to touch my W anymore. I wish I could. But in your case, its probably better to hold off on the ML until you see more progress. He is probably just getting a booty call and then off on his way. I know that probably hurts, but its probably the truth at this point.
No ML. Gotta contain yourself. You can do it. Make him earn it. If you ML to him and then he didn't even invite you to dinner, that would make me quit if I were you.
Of course being a guy, I can't resist my W when she provides it. A weakness of mine. But she isn't providing anymore to me. OM gets it all now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...