Originally Posted By: Dudess
Originally Posted By: Superstar
I moved close to her and cupped her face in one hand while I said softly (close enough to kiss her) "I'm sorry, but you are going to have to leave."

"Now?"

"Right now"


Superstar, I understand why you asked her to leave, but frankly, the way you did it sounds creepy and frightening to me.

Why did you move in close and cup her face in your hand? Why not just maintain your physical distance and ask her to leave?

In her shoes, I think I would feel physically threatened.


Looking back, this was "my" goodbye. I let her go right then. A final kiss without the kiss if you like. It was selfish but I don't regret it.

I'm a big guy (6'4"), but I have never raised my voice, much less my hand to her. I guess this is all about context.

It sounds a lot more creepy than it was. \:\)

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