wow, for a second I DID think you were leaving!!! But I'm glad you are not.
I'm very glad you are getting to a point where you are not stuck in "him" anymore.
Her sleeping 3 hours isn't unheard of, I have friends that say there baby naps 5 hours sometimes, but letting her cry for an hour, that is not right. I know people let there kids cry it out, but that is way way way too long. perhaps he didn't know exactly how long and was just guessing, but still. What did you tell him about that? I would think it would be a good idea to say something in a calm way how the doctors say not to let your baby cry for more than such and such minutes.
I would get that issue resolved because when they do have the other baby, she is obviously not going to get as much attention, I mean that's how it is with any child when a baby comes into the picture, so it would be best to get it taken care of asap.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."