It sucks to be me!!! #58

[addie]

Kalni,
I am glad you are feeling better now that you let out your anger and frustrations. I always feel better too (at least for some time)when I let out my anger. I still have a lot of anger in me over what happened and it's come out at times. It may not be the best way to go about it but it's done and now H knows exactly what you are feeling. I hope he initiates spending time with you this week as the C suggested.
As for your kids, it would probably be very traumatic for them to go live with H. His resistance to taking the kids 50% of the time, could that have anything to do with cultural differences that exist there where it's probably much more common in your country that the mother just keeps the kids and not usually the fathers, except maybe some weekends???? Having 50% custody may be a very foreign concept for him or is it common for this to happen?