Finished DR, and I think I'm going about this all wrong. I've been trying to DB, but W has already said (a) you're dead to me, (b) all I'm doing at C is checking the box, (c) I'm choosing me to be free, (d) even if I stayed for the kids I would be in constant misery, (e) you're just making it worse.
Now that I've completed DR, I think I screwed the pooch there and should have done LRT as my first act.
I'm smiling; I'm being supportive; I'm saying less than she says; I only e-mail if I'm forwarding something from the teachers. But when Michelle writes "if your marriage is dangling by a thread or spouse has already declared firm intent," that's me.
There needs to be some kind of "gauge where you are" tool on this board so that we newbies know where to go.
