I have heard before that it is hard to find me - don't know why. I'm in separated - now what section. But I post almost daily.
Thanks for the end of the story. H has proposed living apart for a long time if needed and spend time together when we can. I am the one who has a problem with the idea - but I don't know if or when I would ever be able to live in the same place. As far as the loving part goes - it was nice to hear too. My H and I still have that feeling about each other behind all the mess. I think we are both not saying anything right now because there is a lot of work ahead.