Yes..I meant it might not be wise to make the decision on divorcing yet, as any decision to end an R whilst Venus is retrograde might not 'stick' once Venus goes forwards. Best to use the Venus R time to explore what and who you value and to look at past issues in love, or reconnect with old lovers, gather information etc before coming to conclusions in love... Sometimes we can only go forwards by going backwards...
Remember my ex has this 6 week project? And I said I hoped he WOULD wait till after that to end it with her.. as then Venus will be direct and the decision WILL stick and not need to be revisited.
so yes, follow the C's advice and perhaps make the decision once yuo have tried, gathered the information you need to make the decision with a clear head (and not out of anger/frustration/I want to feel better)..and when everything is going forwards again (Venus direct April 17th, but then Venus doesnt get back to where it is now and out of its shadow phase, until 22nd May I think and also, Saturn doesnt go forwards until 26th May.. THEN we may know! LOL.. no, still not funny). But proper 'effort' as she calls it, this time!?
