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[ACJ]

In tough times, our thoughts are supposed to turn to friends and loved ones. We are supposed to think fondly of them. We are not supposed to wonder why we ever let certain people into our lives. We are supposed to be full of magnanimity and enthusiasm for our involvement with those around us. Though you've got a lot to question and re-evaluate at the moment, you will soon have an encounter that you truly enjoy. There will be depth of communication and warmth of emotional rapport as you discover that one special person at least, is a true source of much-needed support.

This is my horoscope for the week ahead. It summarises exactly how I feel about my most recent situation.

I tried to talk to D13 this morning about her bad behaviour over the last week. I tried to involve her in decisions about the best way forward. She was not interested and things were getting heated again so I stopped the convo.

This afternoon she went with H to see his aunt. S16 knocked on the door when they arrived which I was surprised at b/c he was supposed to be at work. Apparently he got a message this morning not to go. He is less than pleased.

When they came back S16 told me he couldn't stay for tea as I had suggested as he was meeting his friend. I asked if he at least had time to have a cup of tea with me and he said no b/c H was waiting outside for him. What do I have to do to be able to get my S16 to spend time with me. It never crossed him mind to ring me when he found out he didn't have to go to work.

After a while I asked D13 if H had mentioned her going to live with him again and she no not really. However it seems that they did have a convo with his aunt about him wanting to move and how he would need 3 bedrooms so he is clearly still on that thought path. D13 said that in an ideal world she would like to spend half the time with both of us as she wants to rebuild a R with her dad.

I applauded her for this but mentioned that she could do that without physically living with him. I'm just worried b/c S16 wanted to spend his time half and half and H has made it almost impossible for him to do that. If he did that again I'd have no-one left.

One thing for certain is that this time I will not be allowing anything to happen without a written order so that if he goes back on it I can do something about it.

Does this nightmare ever end?