I'm not sure what to do now. My husband stayed in last night and I went out. This is the first weekend since it happened that he hasn't went out drinking.
Today he seems to have taken his car so looks like he will be home tonight. Not sure if I should stay in in case he wants to talk or go Out. Feeling very scared again. Don't want to drink and then spoil everything but don't want to sit in either snd then he doesn't talk and blow my chance
he just came home, very out of character. Don't think he is going out. Looks very unhappy. Isaid what is wrong and he said nothing. Don't want to approach him. Wish I could help him
I'm quite worried now. . He has just came home and went straight to room. I said what's wrong and he said nothing. He is sitting in a darkened room.
I went in and said i'm really worried about you. He said why? I said you are so unhappy and I don't know how to help. He said i'm pissed off but wouldn't say why. Then got angry and told me he was fine. very snappy with me.
now I don't know if he is depressed which is why our marriage is in trouble or if he is depressed because of me?
spoke with his mum today, she called me. He said to her we had been to counselling and he thought it helped. That was on the Mon and on the thurs was when he said we're not going to work but still wanted to go to counselling?
I asked if he was going out and he said later. __________________
So back to acting happy. I don't know if I did much damage when I asked if he was ok. when he said he was fine I told him he wasn't so that was not a good move.
I'll just let him have his peace in dark room next time. Thats probably why he then went out.
Told him I was going out but he didn't seem to care.
