Well, I think I'm seeing a pretty sneaky game coming together here.
W has been talking about getting a new job - even mentioned one in a town about 25 minutes away, but said it would pay better. She did go on that date - the first one in probably 5 weeks that was the "two of them". Funny, they actually met for dinner at the town that she was talking about getting the job. Even funnier, her lease is up in 3 months.
I'm thinking she is looking to make a move that would put her closer to him, yet still not far from me so she wouldn't have to drive the kids a long way.
Now, this could all be in my head, but it certainly would fit the WAW style.
I'm tired of the games - I'm going to ask her flat out, and be done with it. I will file divorce this month if she doesn't end it.
I'm ready - I know I am. I deserve so much better than this - I have friends who appreciate and care for me, a family that loves me dearly. I have children who love me, and want us to be together as a family.
I have to suck it up, and be the moral/spiritual leader, do the right thing, and end this. I am not angry or bitter, and I fear I am heading down that path.
I will not be W's friend, but I will be civil, but we end here and now.
I mistook her trying to wheedle her way in for us connecting - very genuine on my part, and a complete load of bull on hers.
