"Sometimes, Venus retrograde cycles will result in the squelching of a relationship that is not meant to be. But if the relationship is something that is to have an impact on your life, it will rebound from this retrograde with greater depth and interest than before. Under the retrograde influence, you will assess the severity of the problems and the “cost-benefit”of the relationship...and only after Venus marches forward should you initiate any break-up or begin any new direction.
Often a past lover reappears giving you the opportunity to begin again or put it to a final end.
During the next 40+ days you will sense you are in the dark and indecisive as to what to do and how you want to move forward. You will feel compelled to review your actions toward others then analyze and meditate on what's right and what's wrong. Scenes from your past will be coming to your consciousness...and looking back will give you the opportunity to see what happened from a different perspective...just look at situations realistically and be honest with yourself.
This period of reflection gives you the opportunity to think about your behavior in the past and what really happened that created problems. Maybe things would have turned out better for you had you done things differently. Think about how you can change your behavior in the future. To understand how this period will affect you, think back to March and April of 2001 then look to what has developed since the beginning of February, 2009."
...God I said nothing would be clear until May months and months ago didnt I
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(oh and I discovered last night there is an amazingly auspicous and rare exact conjunction of Neptune and Jupiter (both the 'ruler' planets of Pisces).. in May! But, we should begin to 'feel' it by April.)