Thanks for the well wishes everyone. It's an odd feeling to know that you can move on with your life. I'm not really sure what to do now! I've been fighting for so long.. first for my marriage and then for my child. Now what???
It's funny but now that the decisions are all made I kind of feel bad for the X. I really do. I know he made his bed but I pity the life that he has chosen for himself and I think that the reality of that started to hit him in court. And, somehow I think that he ended up actually respecting me a bit more - who I am and what I stand for - through this whole court process.