I have not confronted OW. My H's sympathies are with her so if I confront then H will just see that as me attacking her, controlling him and being 'unreasonable'. So I have chosen the high road. Don't know if it is working. But I can tell you that OW has not contacted me, is not contacting my kids and my H has not yet introduced her to children. That is what I want. I DO NOT want her in my kids' lives!
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
