Thanks everyone for the comments!

Rough day today. Stbx is arguing about everything he can think of and none of it makes any sense. He wants to settle this out of court, but also hired an argumentative L who is money hungry. So, he has 4 pages of ridiculous reasons why he is owed alimony and I had to go through all pages and show the facts on all of this. It's like he has selective memory or false memory syndrome. Some of his statements were outright false. It's just so unbelievable to me the level he is trying to stoop to - just to see if he could get extra money. Then he called me on the phone to discuss it and I made the mistake of listening to him and trying to talk to him. I should leave it all to the L's from now on. Stbx thinks we're "collaborative" but he's really just trying to manipulate me and it's become ridiculous and stressful.

I guess I'm naive, because I didn't think he would go to this level of lying/B.S. He's also pulling pictures off my Myspace page of me with new friends to use as court evidence that my standard of living is better than his. This is the only evidence he has to prove that point. Insane!


DBer since 2003
D - 3/24/09
GAL and DBing for myself