I am getting myself emotionally and spiritually healthy in the meantime. If I do not, I will not be ready to tackle the difficult road of piecing and reconciliation when the time comes.
This is exactly what every LBS needs to do. You are definitely on the right path, and you still have further to go, but you are getting closer and closer with every step.
Crissy--
Thank you for all of your support and prayers. You are such a wonderful friend! I cannot wait to meet you at some point in the future! God truly blessed me the day he prompted you to read my first thread.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
and I am very blessed that God led me to your thread too! You are such an inspiration to me and leader as well.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
WOW! Great name! Again. Of course I'm also very fond of "Hon" !
Thank you for the virtual chicken soup on my thread, it made my mouth water and gave me an idea. I'm going to make it tomorrow!
(((Hugs)))
{{{{{Stella}}}}}
Everyone seems to like that "Hon"! LOL
You are quite welcome for the soup! I made chicken stew last Sunday and the kids loved it. I had just enough left for them to have it for leftovers a couple days later. Hope you are feeling better. I seem to have caught something myself. Looks like walking pneumonia and a cold. I am finally feeling better, but it was a rough week. How did your soup come out?
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
and I am very blessed that God led me to your thread too! You are such an inspiration to me and leader as well.
You are so sweet! On the other thing--I have not gotten alot of the study work done, I have felt so yucky this week from being sick. Of course, I lost weight anyway, cause it hurt too bad to swallow anything that was not liquid. You may get a flood of emails once I get my school work done and get caught up.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Don't you love when you hope for something, but have no expectations of it happening, and it does anyway?
I have not heard from DH since Last Saturday--no emails since the phone call.
I just logged into my email and about 30 minutes ago I received an email wishing me a Happy Birthday and wanting to know if we had any plans for the day to celebrate. That was it, two short sentences, and I burst into tears. I honestly did not think he would acknowledge it at all, but I prayed and prayed that he would. God is so wonderful!
Have to go get the littles ready for church. I may check in with everyone later.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
Awesome! I am so happy that you got this little sign that your H is thinking of you! Praise God!
Thanks for your kind words regarding my post of a couple of days ago!
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
I hope you feel better. I made my chicken soup with noodles, lots of lemon and lots and lots of red and black pepper - eastern way. I learned it in Asia and it seems to help relieve flu and cold symptoms. It's quite tasty, too.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08