It's really surreal how so many of us can be going through the exact same scenarios, yet before the bomb, not even a clue that anything was wrong. If there is one thing that keeps me from totally beating myself up, it's knowing that I'm not in a unique situation.
I hate that you are going through this, but at least we have each other to commiserate. I do believe that this type of support is what will get us through this, and will also give each of us the best chance for restoring our marriages. Strength in numbers. I'll be praying for you.
