Song,

I read your story. I agree, lots of similarities. I hope I can find some of those good signs. I'm just trying to figure out what to look for, and more importantly, how to get there.

I am soooo impatient, and she seems to be able to wait forever. She doesn't even mention our marriage at all. But I'm doing everything I can not to call, not to check the temprature, not to even discuss the relatonship unless she brings it up. So far she hasn't.

I'm sitting alone in a hotel room right now. I'd love for her to be here...

At this point I'm pondering some kind of apartment. I live with my dad right now, which stinks so bad I can't describe. She has said in the past that I was afraid of being alone. No, I don't want to be alone, but it's better than dad's place and it may show some strength and that I want to move on (a little 180 action...maybe). I don't know.


Me: 39
Wife: 41
Boys: 8 & 5
WAW: 02/11/2009
She Filed For D: 03/26/2009 - Yeah it was that quick!