Forgot to mention also, when I disappeared and went NC, Puppy reminded me that I shouldn't just be hiding out from H, which I had started doing, but just really keeping busy and GALing. You know, it's not that you are avoiding her, you're just so busy, and really keep yourself busy.... Karen
Guys, nutfarmer,karen,Vdad, Puppy, Thank a lot. Today we had a wonderful evening, went together to a buffet, then both of us were reading nice book to our daughter, this was great. Now my wife is singing a great lullaby. I even hope that this guy will not call this night - because it is so good :)But I definitely felt that I would screw everything if I said a word about how I feeling and that I am going to give her enough space. So I did not. Option (i)as is. Here is what I want to ask you about 180. Where to draw a line? If she calls me out-especially when it is warm and we may go to a lake or to movies, some of this invitations can be accepted right? Another thing about GALs. I am quite busy at my work, normally work at evenings as well. Plus for sure I will have what to do with this house that I am buying. But I would also love to volunteer somewhere, go out, talk, help others. Any specific ideas? Remember I was raised in Europe so not quite familiar with all the options available here. Meals on wheels?
