Guys, nutfarmer,karen,Vdad, Puppy, Thank a lot. Today we had a wonderful evening, went together to a buffet, then both of us were reading nice book to our daughter, this was great. Now my wife is singing a great lullaby. I even hope that this guy will not call this night - because it is so good :)But I definitely felt that I would screw everything if I said a word about how I feeling and that I am going to give her enough space. So I did not. Option (i)as is. Here is what I want to ask you about 180. Where to draw a line? If she calls me out-especially when it is warm and we may go to a lake or to movies, some of this invitations can be accepted right? Another thing about GALs. I am quite busy at my work, normally work at evenings as well. Plus for sure I will have what to do with this house that I am buying. But I would also love to volunteer somewhere, go out, talk, help others. Any specific ideas? Remember I was raised in Europe so not quite familiar with all the options available here. Meals on wheels?