FIB, hang in there. Hopefully you will not have to deal with her much longer.
Your w seems to be spinning. Get out of the way or you'll get caught up in the vortex. And remind her that you are the parent also, and you made the decision to give her freakin fruit loops and SHE should not have tried to overrule your decision.
Come on FIB, just give me half an hour with her. I wont need more than that. Pretty please.