Here I am.. Done with the big D. We avoided a trial thanks to the judge and our attorneys. I am at peace with the compromises that were made. xh is not... I can't help that. I had to fight for my child.
The oddest thing is that my parents are totally upset with me. They wanted me to fight harder for full custody even though I still ended up being the primary custodial parent even with the compromises I made. Personally, I wanted to avoid a bloody, hurtful trial. Things worked out. But, my Mother had the gall to tell me that I have handled things poorly from the beginning. UGH... I thought I would get support there.. Unfortunately, it seems like they are still out to get xh.
But, I am relieved. A huge burden has been lifted from my shoulders... *sigh*