About the fourth step, I know about the steps, and he is having a hard time doing the first three. I did say something about a possible reunion after step 4,and 5. He ok. I don't think he has a clue but when i thought about what would give me some confidence - I remembered step 4&5 getting to people in a way that they could no longer ignore what they did while drinking. I am also aware that many people split from the program at that point.
