We've all DB'd enough to know that there are issues on both sides of the fence. She should journal those out or tell you what those are. Then both she and her H should figure out what they WANT in the M. And not vague things like, I wish I loved him. It would have to be concrete changes they would have to see in the other.
First off though, she'd have to cut out the A cold turkey. She won't like it, but you can't have your cake and eat it too.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
