I would still try to find out what you can do. Wouldn't it be easier staying where you are if you can afford to? Unless of course you are ready for a fresh start all the way around.
I am just trying to replace things as I can to try to get his ghost out of my house. For example I have newer sheets and bedspread that he has never touched or possibly seen. I am going to strip the last bit of wallpaper from the living room and paint that. Maybe this is in line with your thinking?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory