I't kinda funny. At the start of my situation when W first walked out (ran out), I told her I wanted her to not file straight away since I needed time to come to terms with everything and was struggling with accepting what was happening.
Now, I want this over asap. I want to move on and I am finding that not having the paperwork filed along with not having any timeline for the completion of the divorce is becoming a pain in the butt.
I have no intention of any sort of reconciliation and I'm finding that other women I am interested in are shying clear once they hear I am still married with no progress down the divorce path at all. I am now pressuring my wife to get off her butt and work with her lawyer to accelerate this.
Its funny how things change. Although I don't really care, it will be interesting to see if she starts to have serious second thoughts once it really dawns on her that I am no longer interested in anything she says or does.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats