I'm trying to think of what I was like before we were married.
I'm talking about what attracted him to you?? Were you cute and sexy?? did you have nice conversations where you both went all gooey eyed?? Something attracted him..that's what he now misses..that's what has been lost and you need to get that back..
I bet you both got comfortable and quit working at the M?? especially when the kids came along...all the time when for the kids and none for you 2..
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I really do appreciate the being kicked in the a$$ a bit. In fact, I enjoy it. It helps me get unstuck.
not an ass kicking..I speak the truth..straight up and to the point...if you been here for a year then you have seen it all..WAS are all the same..they say the same things, they do the same things..the only difference is whether an OP is involved or not..and by the way..the only way you'll get unstuck is to unstick yourself...by detaching..