Sometimes, the "correct" thing to do is not the "right" thing to do. Make sense?
Standing by while she cuckolds me in my own home, in front of my child was probably "correct" DB'ing but if it killed my self-respect in the process, in my mind it would not be worth it.
I must love myself in order to love you.
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Superstar, so true!!! I need to remember this b/c sometimes I get so afraid of hurting or upsetting my H that I allow him to do things that are just not right. I then I get upset and feel like crap. If I had nipped it in the butt from the start I would have been much better off. I gotta remember that.
Great job on standing up for yourself!! And I think it was the right DB thing to do. Hopefully I will be inspired.
