Beans, how are your kids taking this? It does take a toll on them. I try my best but there are days that are tough and I don't want to lean on my kids. I am the parent.
H told me in July 08 - he wanted to split up after coming home drunk one night. We went to MC seperately 3x and then met together and he said he wanted to live on his own and did not want to work on the M. (21 years). I always felt that H just agreed to MC as a way to tell me he wanted out. Started to figure out the A in August, H moved 10/1, confirmed A around then, H files papers 1/09. He has never tried to come back and is in very deep with OW. We all work at the same place. It has been h@ll for me.
I continued with C through to 1/09. No meds so far but if I need it I will have to start them. I currently take St. John's Wort which is a natural vitamin.
I try to keep busy but the weekends are the worst. It is always such a lonely time for me. Hate it. We need to GAL, stay focused on the goal.
Do you see your H? Now is the time to DB even though you don't feel like it. Let him think that you have moved on. Has H asked for a D? How much do you know about OW? Did you expose the A? I wish that I took action sooner than I did and I think it hurt my situation by not being a little more agressive. take care
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
