Often (not always), there is not that much difference between the WAS and the LBS: Both contributed to a M that has ended up on the rocks. Both are unhappy. Both are looking for answers. Both need to learn the lessons of DBing - especially, that they are responsible for their own happiness, and can't depend on their spouse to "make" them happy.
That last one is the key. If you can, look past the bad behaviors you are seeing right now from her. Help her learn to be a happier person on her own. Then that misguided need to "find someone ELSE who will make her happy" won't be so important anymore. Make sense?
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
